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at St. Peter’s. Our church was where he “took his breaks.” It
certainly provided him a quiet and comfortable place to retreat from the
crowds and the elements; but it also offered him an opportunity to pray.
Dave was quick to tell anyone willing to listen that he had been raised in
the Church of the Nazarene and almost as quick to tell a joke “at the
expense” of his religion. He also made it a point to regularly make it
to Mass. He not only liked listening to what the “preacher” had to
say, he appreciated being a part of the prayer we share each day.
Those frequent visits to St. Peter’s were
also an opportunity for something else that Dave did every day. It
wasn’t a tithe in the strict sense of the term; but Dave made it a point
to contribute some of what had been given him each day to the Poor Box
here at St. Peter’s. He knew that there were people whose need was
greater than his own; and he wanted to do what he could to help them.
Whenever I’d hear the sounds of his coins falling into the Poor Box, I
always remembered the Gospel story of the “widow’s mite.”
When
he looked up he saw some wealthy people putting their offerings into the
treasury and he noticed a poor widow putting in two small coins. He said,
“I tell you truly, this poor widow put in more than all the rest; for
those others have all made offerings from their surplus wealth, but she,
from her poverty, has offered her whole livelihood.”
(Luke
20:45-47) His charity was always the best sermon that I heard on any given
day.
When he had finished saying his prayers and
making his contribution, Dave made it a point to stop by our Front Office.
He wanted to know how we were doing. He didn’t need to tell us how he
was doing. His persistent cough and increasing emaciation more than
suggested that all was not well with him. There were also times when he
didn’t need to say a word about at least one of his demons. One whiff
usually told the whole story; and as his condition continued to
deteriorate, it was pretty clear that his story was an unfolding tragedy.
Nevertheless, Dave’s spirits were good and his interest was genuine. It
was in those conversations that many of us got to meet the man who,
before, had only been a stranger on a street corner. We not only learned
what his religion was, but also where his home had been. There were
holiday stories of visits to a brother and his family in one of
Chicago’s suburbs. We got to experience his sense of humor and also
encountered his sense of outrage when a case of mistaken identity caused
him some problems here. It would be an over-statement to say that we got
to know him; but we certainly had an opportunity to meet him. It was a
pleasure.
If “persistent cough and increasing
emaciation” doesn’t offer an insight into what prompts these words,
then the past tense of all the verbs surely should. Dave died last
Tuesday. He was in his early 40’s. We don’t have many more details
than that. We don’t know where or how he died. We don’t know when,
where or if there was a funeral. What I do know is that I hope his brother
and the rest of his family gathered with a community of faith somewhere to
celebrate the peace which Dave has now found in the fullness of God’s
presence. What I do know is that I wish I could have been a part of that
prayer. What I do know is that I miss his presence on the Northwest corner
of Madison and LaSalle Streets and his daily visits to our church. What I
do know is that his passing can’t and shouldn’t go unnoticed or
uncelebrated in this faith community. He was one of us; and we were
blessed in and honored by his presence. We may not have been able to
easily recognize ourselves in him; but God surely saw his own image in
this child upon whom he looked with love. Eternal
rest grant unto Dave, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May
his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of
God, rest in peace. Amen.
My homily on Palm Sunday acknowledged a story
that continues to inspire and challenge me. A number of years ago, two of
my Franciscan brothers moved out of their friary in Brussels, Belgium and
began to live under a railroad trestle. Their inspiration had come from a
simple sentence in one of the Gospels, He
looked on them with love; and they
wanted to be where they could do just that for the people in their
community who were most ignored and despised. The people who fell into
that category in Brussels at that
time
were the men and women who “rode the rails,” the people we’ve
traditionally called “hoboes” or “bums.” These Franciscans wanted
to make sure that, whatever else they experienced during each of their
days, these people would have someone there to look on them with love.
I’ve always been reasonably sure that I couldn’t live under a railroad
trestle; and sometimes I’ve wondered whether “looking on someone with
love” isn’t even more difficult. Dave’s death has become a gift of
grace that renews that challenge for me; and I hope it will do so for you.
It can be so easy to ignore, to be irritated, by the presence of another;
and that response isn’t limited to those who stand on street corners and
panhandle. Our families can be filled with people who experience a similar
disregard all the time. Such people are no strangers to the rest of our
lives either. We may or may not believe that responding to whatever else
they ask of us is a wise course of action. We may or may not think that
it’s a good idea to give money to someone who asks for it on the street;
but there’s no question that we can and should treat and greet everyone
with respect.
A “look of love” often asks little more
of us than that we take the time to notice and acknowledge the presence of
another. Kindness in our eyes, in our words and in the way we speak those
words may require some effort, but not much. It’s the least that we
would want for ourselves; and it ought to be the least we gracefully,
gratefully and willingly give to others.
I am always humbled by and filled with pride
at the ministry which Fr. Larry Janezic, O.F.M. and his colleagues at the
Franciscan Outreach Association offer. Their service takes many forms. The
House of Mary and Joseph provides emergency shelter to hundreds of men and
women each night. The Marquard Center feeds a hundred or so of the hungry
each evening of the week. It makes available something so seemingly simple
as an opportunity to wash dirty clothes. Staff members are there each day
to look on those who come to them with love and help them find their way
to lives more worthy of who they are. The Franciscan Outreach Association
is a blessing, and most deserving of our support. If you would like to
help and I hope you will, please contact Fr. Larry at 1645 West LeMoyne
Street, Chicago, Illinois 60622. The telephone number is 773-278-6724.
Thousands of people pass through St.
Peter’s doors each week. Each of us enters with a story that only God
fully understands. Dave was one with us in that. I’m glad he came. I
miss him, and I pray for him. God bless Dave and all of us with . . .
Peace and everything good,
Fr. Bill
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